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What Every Husband Wishes His Wife Knew (6 of 7)
Series: Song of Solomon
Song of Solomon 7:10-8:4
Refer to Page 231 in God on Sex Book Read list 25 Essential of a Fantastic Female.
1. Your Husband Wants You to Initiate Intimacy
a. Initiate Confidently
10 "I am my beloved's, And his desire is for me.
Confidence especially when it comes to intimacy is very attractive to a man. But guys, notice the source of her confidence is that she feels secure in her husbands love.
C.J. Mahanney said it well, "The husband must touch her heart before touching her body". I would add to that, "The husband must give her great security before he can expect her to have confidence in bed"
How much help you wife needs in this area is affected by:
1. Her past relationships - dating at times can be training for divorce.
a. If a woman has been let down by another, she may have difficulty trusting you.
b. If a woman has been sexually abused it can affect her intimacy in marriage.
2. Your past faithfulness
3. None related issues
a. Does she trust you financially
b. Does she trust you spiritually
4. Her view of her body
Ladies with all of this said, your husband cannot make you confident, only you can do that. Settle the issues that rob you of confidence, tackle them head on and move on…
Confidence can overcome:
• Physical imperfections
• Relationship difficulties
A woman's sexual confidence may be the strongest aphrodisiac known to man.
b. Initiate Specifically
11 "Come, my beloved, let us go out into the country, Let us spend the night in the villages. 12 "Let us rise early and go to the vineyards; Let us see whether the vine has budded And its blossoms have opened, And whether the pomegranates have bloomed. There I will give you my love.
ILLUSTRATION: I have done counseling sessions when we talked about the woman being the initiator and the wife say, "I often initiate" and the husband is like, "When???" then she says, "You rem ...
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