Elsa no longer remembers what the argument was about, but it began before breakfast one morning and continued as Steve started off to work. &ld;How can you just go off like that?&rd; cried Elsa. &ld;We haven&rs;t settled a thing!&rd;

Then Steve did what few men as ambitious and driven as Steve is could do: he turned around and went to the phone and canceled all his appointments for that day, &ld;saying to me, in effect, that our relationship meant more than business meetings, saying that I&rs;d married a man who would sacrifice work for love.&rd;