Bits & Pieces, March 30, 1995, pp. 12-13
Life is a learning process, as this beautiful bit of free verse by Veronica A. Shoffstall tells us:
After a while you learn the subtle difference And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts After a while you learn
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security.
And presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth...
And you learn and learn...
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts After a while you learn
After a while you learn